Brittney Guide
Questions to Ask Before a Major Life Decision
Use practical and intuitive questions to evaluate a move, career change, relationship decision or new opportunity.
What facts do I already know?
List the information you can verify, the assumptions you are making and what still needs research. This prevents anxiety from being mistaken for evidence.
What does each choice require?
Consider money, time, emotional capacity, support and possible consequences. Ask what you would need in order to feel prepared rather than waiting to feel completely fearless.
What aligns with my values?
A helpful intuitive reading can explore which direction feels open or blocked, but your values provide the foundation. The best decision is not always the easiest one; it is the one you can make with awareness and responsibility.
Notice the pattern beneath the decision
Ask which values, strengths and recurring interests are present across different chapters of your life. A meaningful direction often appears as a pattern before it becomes a perfect plan. Pay attention to choices that create steady energy, curiosity and self-respect rather than relying only on excitement or fear.
Turn insight into one next step
Choose a small action you can complete and evaluate: gather information, update a résumé, schedule a conversation, test a creative idea or set a boundary. One grounded step provides new evidence and makes the next decision clearer. Spiritual guidance should support this process rather than remove your responsibility for it.